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Monday, 1 January 2018

SEMBANG | 1/365

(12:00PM)

Assalamualaikum & hai there..

So it is 2018 already aye? 

New year resolution?
trying my best to blog each and everyday . [which i think would be impossible]

Which leads us back to the topic

SEMBANG

What do you know and understand about sembang?

For those who dont know the word 'sembang' can be translated into 'all talk but no action'

It is a word that us , Malaysian use when a person plans trip and outing but end up canceling last minute. Clear? However, a part of me says that 'sembang' isn't all talk no action.

Moving on...

How far can you classify a person 'all talk no action'?

When you have went thru few cancel plan trips with that person. I mean once or twice is okay but if it is a recurring incident then of course, who wouldn't be pissed off right?

And as for you my dear 'kaki sembang' / 'kuat sembang', you will be losing your friends because they will find it hard to believe in every words you say anymore. You wouldnt want that, would you? 

Does a guy or girl is more dominant to have this trait?

Generally I think it is guys and im not saying this just because im a girl myself.
It's because guys find it hard to keep their promises i guess?

But really im not here to talk about genderism.

Well, as for me if i ever become that 'kuat sembang' kind of person it might just be my self conflict tryna kick in with being such a selfish brat canceling plans last minute. Thinking "oh, i dont have the energy to socialize".  Gurl you are the one who was so excited to begin with....???



Anyway, I guess Allah is the Best Planner.

Right?

Masyallah 

I think I should stop here and i'll see you guys in my next post. <3

Thank you for reading. ;)


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