Assalamualaikum & salam tengah malam..
A friend sent me this
how do you move on from someone. how do you move on from someone that used to be your the one. how do you face his mom at his house at night during tahlil. how do you sleep at night knowing that tomorrow morning you won’t receive his normal good morning and hearing him nagging about your bad habits.
how do you function after losing part of you
welcome back to this series!
if u have been following the other entry from this series then you will know the flow of this entry but if you are new here let me enlighten you. so basically i'll be sharing some paragraphs that i wrote for my friends.
U snooze U lose! Follow the series here...
~1~ Read this when you feel down with your studies.
~2~ Read this when you feel alone.
~3~ Read this when you feel like suicide isnt the solution.
My reply
In my opinion I think that moving on is somewhat personal and different for each kind of people.
Some may even laugh and be happy the next day without even caring about whatever happen the night before.(Breaking up) It could be that they are trying to cover up and pretend as if nothing ever happen the night before. Maybe perhaps they didn't even cry that night. To this kind of person the reality hits them after and it takes them awhile to notice that they lost apart of them. Only then they start to cry.
Heck every moving on will take awhile or a long time. It doesn't matter how long it takes as long as you know that you are moving on then that to me is fine enough.
One the other hand, some would cry the night until the next morning and it will be almost impossible for them not to cry. They would go to sleep crying and waking up the next morning crying. Maybe perhaps they would even lose their sleep just to grief. At one point it wouldn't be just a sad feeling but almost a habit to feel sad. To this kind of people they won't hold on to the feeling that long. They cry and they forget. Well maybe not completely but somewhere there. I personally think that these kind of people move on faster but it depends on each individual.
I believe that there are other ways of moving on but as for now, I can only distinctively differentiate these two behaviors of moving on.
So to me moving on, isn't something that can happen whenever you want it to happen. It is not a moment but a process. I personally think nobody really moves on completely from another person. Somehow I just feel like moving on is just a pit stop until you'd find someone much more better so that you can replaced the old memories but being in a new relationship sometimes doesn't mean that you have move on completely from the other person.
In conclusion, don't be fully attached to anybody because someone once told me to need a person is a dangerous thing to do. ✌
oh and btw remember this post where i wrote that i wasnt able to go for netball practice for the time being because of my facial condition, well it didnt last long. i really couldnt help myself.. guess what did i do? the very next day i just simply go to the practice. what im trying to say here is that the treatment isnt that bad, to the point it can stop me from doing the things that i love and perhaps maybe my face got a little bit freak out because it was my first ever facial treatment.
I think i should stop here and i'll see you guys in my next post. <3
Thank you for reading! :)
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